I never wanted to get married. The only marriages I'd seen were disintegrating. When I needed to choose yes or no I asked God for help. He answered that I needed to trust one person in my life. That person is my husband now. He saved me, and I saved him.

1 Corinthians 7:16
For how do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?

Bible Gateway link: 1 Corinthians 7:16 (ESV)

Need I say more?😊

1 Corinthians 4:20
For the kingdom of God does not consist in talk but in power.

Bible Gateway link: 1 Corinthians 4:20 (ESV)

I think you need courage for the small decisions. For example, being kind when you don't want to, or, doing the next right thing instead of jumping into the breach because you 'feel' like it. I learned this by living with the consequences of thinking I could run my own life.

Psalm 27:14
Wait for the Lord;
be strong, and let your heart take courage;
wait for the Lord!

Bible Gateway link: Psalm 27:14 (ESV)