So controversial! Regardless, I took this advice long ago. Being self-controlled, kind and submissive to my husband has made my life full of mutual love, admiration and respect. Try it, a good marriage is one of God’s great blessings.

Titus 2:3 

Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled. Likewise, urge the younger men to be self-controlled. Show yourself in all respects to be a model of good works, and in your teaching show integrity, dignity,

Titus 2:3-7 (ESV) Bible Gateway link.