When we want things that seem impossible, we are filled with resentment and self-pity. We close the door and just get angrier and angrier that others have something denied to us. We get to choose; anger or love, impossible or possible, resentment or acceptance. God will do what he does, you can be on his side or not. Personally I choose God, I am home, I am barren AND a joyous mother.

The Lord is high above all nations, 

  and his glory above the heavens! 

Who is like the Lord our God, 

  who is seated on high, 

who looks far down

  on the heavens and the earth? 

He raises the poor from the dust 

  and lifts the needy from the ash heap, 

to make them sit with princes, 

  with the princes of his people. 

He gives the barren woman a home, 

  making her the joyous mother of children. 

Praise the Lord!

Psalm 113:4-9 -Bible Gateway link: Psalm 113:4-9